For love: Please read

Out of a hectic schedule I have taken this time out to share some insight about life. The reason for this is love and compassion. I would be blunt so please bear with me. This one is especially for my loved ones.

Few mistakes and misconceptions that I had got rid off, I see in many people out there and that makes me sad.

Chetan Bhagat ones said, “A promotion will mean nothing on the day of your breakup.” Purpose of life is to be equanimous and happy. Even buddha, Sandeep Maheshwari, Osho, and many great personalities have quoted the same thing. But very few people know and understand it.

I have been through the profession of media, advertising and films.

The people, commonly called as freshers or strugglers, are manipulated here. They work for free they even do overtimes. They are ready to do anything. Any compromise. For they desire Fame, money and glamour. They ignore their personal life, their health, family and relationships. Girls make unrequired compromises. Their seniors and bosses try to be over friendly and flirtatious. Even if the girls don’t like it, they bear it. They make it a normal behaviour to stay in such environment. In the hope of some fictitious success. I have been there did that. Such sacrifices take you no where. In such conditions our passion and understanding of life dies. It is frustrating. Even if you pretend it doesn’t matter, It does. Deep down inside you know it.

But we don’t act. We remove frustrations on relations and loved ones. Jiddu Krishna Murti use to explain that when you try to discover answer for the most important question, “Who am I?” You go blank. Nothing. Then it dawns that you are nothing but relationships. The bond of love and compassion. But we are grown and conditioned in such way that we think purpose of life is all those worthless things. In the process we are not destroying relations but ourselves. Our dreams are our prison.

If my inner calling is to be an actor it doesn’t matter if i am superstar or not I can act anywhere. I work in a bank. And i act as a responsible bank employee. That is my role. I do it honestly.

Make sure you live life. Not waste it in chasing some dream that you are conditioned into believing your self.

Living life is in loving, caring for your own health and spending time with your self and loved ones. Do not detoriate your self. Do a job which pays you with personal space, time and appropriate salary. The amount need not to be great. Do not work for free. The jobs and bosses that don’t pay you with these are not worth having.

After a long battle. I realised that misery is self created. We spend whole life chasing some stupid desire and lose the only thing we get in life. Life. That is all. The greatest gift that life has to offer is Life itself. Cherish it every moment. Don’t waste a single drop of it.

I know to understand it you have to experience it. But still my love made me to try to explain it to you.

Rest in yourself. Live life. Cherish every moment of time you have. There is no heaven no hell only this life. Don’t try to make it heaven or hell let it be simply life. It is most beautiful as life itself.

The greatest thing that you will ever learn is to love and get loved.